I'm New To Swinging, How Do I Get Into The Scene?

The best way to get into the scene is to answer an ad or post your own. That's what this site is all about! As this question often comes from single males let me offer some direct advice to that group - try answering ads first in the Couples for males section - always be polite - send full photographs, cock shots may not get you as many responses. If at first you don't succeed - try, try again. If someone says they are going to the Bermuda triangle for an extended holiday take the hint and move on to the next ad.